Why Do I Write? by Karin Harlow

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Why Do I Write? by Karin Harlow

Before I start, I’d like to say, I’m really excited to be here at Night Owl Romance!  Thank you for having me!

Ok, so I’m often asked, “Why do you write?”  And depending on the day, my mood and how the writing is going, it could be one of several answers.   When I wrote my first story, at the tender age of 17, it was a fantasy.  A fantasy in that it was a copulation of my daydreams.  I was a happy, normal girl growing up.  I had the same great boyfriend throughout high school, but my daydreams took me to far off places where I was braver, smarter, prettier and I made things happen.  My character made a difference.  Of course, this always caught the notice of the hottest guy around.  Once he saw me, he was love-struck by a lightening bolt through the heart. It was love at first sight for us both.   And together, we rode off into the sunset and conquered the world.

So, one reason I write, is because I have stories to tell.  They are not about me anymore, but there is always a part of me in my heroines.  I married my knight in shining armor, a cop who is now retired and there is a little of him in every hero I wrote.  Together we do some pretty amazing things.

I write because it gives me the freedom to be home, with my family, where I pretty much pick my hours.  I don’t have to put makeup on or wear snazzy suits. Hell, I don’t have to bush my teeth if I don’t feel like it!  And before anyone is thinking, Harlow is gross, let me say for the record, despite wearing jogging pants and tees as my new power suit, my hygiene has always remained a priority.  

I also write because it affords me an income.  I am, a working writer.  Yes, some days I do not want to go to work, and I play hooky.  Some days I sit frustrated at my keyboard and wonder where my imagination has gone.  Some days, I just want to go back to bed.  But most days, I smile in anticipation.  Meeting up with my characters where we left off is always a challenge I’m up for.  

My heroines are smart, brave, and pretty, but not always pretty in the classic sense. My heroines do things I would never do. L.O.S.T. (Last Option Special Team) operative Jax Cassidy in ENEMY LOVER is brazen, bold, highly intelligent, a femme fatal to a T, and the first person I would call if I needed help. As I wrote ENEMY LOVER, I lived vicariously through her.  And as exciting as it was, I liked to keep it that way.  
My heroes, ahh, they are alpha, and smart, and brave and devastatingly handsome, scars and all.  They are tortured souls who have turned their backs on humanity.  Some, like Marcus Cross, Jax’s hard-earned hero in ENEMY LOVER is not only a vampire, but a vampire who owns the term.  He makes no excuses for what he is: a predator.  With his heightened senses and powers, Marcus is at the top of his game, and as an assassin, they don’t come more lethal then Marcus Cross.

Now, the real reason I write, no let me rephrase: The real reason I LOVE to write is that it affords me the opportunity to meet the most intriguing people in the world.  Writing takes me places I would have never ventured to go.  Writing gets my adrenaline pumping, and my heart racing.  Writing makes me feel the full spectrum of emotions. It shakes me up and invigorates me.  And more than anything, writing gives me a Happily Ever After each time I type The End.  I love that part of my job.

How about you?  What do you do for a living and what do you love most about it?


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41 Response to Why Do I Write? by Karin Harlow

May 20, 2010 3:36 AM

Thanks for sharing Karin. I always like to hear what motivates a writer.
Don't enter me in the contest.
BTW I'm glad you got to marry your hero ;D

May 20, 2010 7:29 AM

I work in a factory that makes magazines. It's not my favorite place to be but it pays the bills. What I really enjoy working there is my friends that I've made and the fact that we only work 3(12hours)days a week unless there's overtime and right now we don't have to worry about that and I love that we take nothing less than 20 minute breaks every couple hours usually we take thirty minutes.

sstrode@scrtc.com

May 20, 2010 7:54 AM

I work in finance and with the economy the way it has been over the past few years it's been a crazy ride. Analyzing numbers may be pretty boring to some - sometimes for me too! - but when the numbers represent a bigger world issue, it's illuminating.

jenma76@

May 20, 2010 8:49 AM

Before I had to retire due to my severe RA, I worked for a school district. Not as a teacher, but for the director of all the buildings, grounds and transportation. It's a fairly large district so it kept me on my toes. I enjoyed knowing the things we did on a daily basis made it possible for our kids to get the best education possible. After all, they are our future.

seriousreader@

Colleen
May 20, 2010 11:22 AM

I was a preschool teacher... what I loved most about it was seeing the children learn new things... whether it was the alphabet, a new song, doing things on their own, etc... now I see these things in my nephew as he grows... :)

greenshamrock@

May 20, 2010 12:49 PM

Sorry, I'm late! Call me a ding dong but I had a hard time finding the blog!

May 20, 2010 12:50 PM

Hey, Bonnie, thank you for stopping by!

Yep, at the moment, said hero is brewing a fresh pot of coffee for me!

May 20, 2010 12:52 PM

Sherry paying the bills is a huge motivator. But it sounds like you have a good time where you are. What would be your dream job?

May 20, 2010 12:53 PM

Scorpio, I love numbers! I love crunching them at the end of each month. My family thinks I'm crazy.

May 20, 2010 12:55 PM

Linda, how is the RA now? I have a dear writer friend who deals with the pain daily. And you are 100% correct, kids are our future. We need to grow them with care.

May 20, 2010 12:56 PM

Colleen, how fun! I love kids at that age. Still so very innocent and viewing the world in wonder.

Tina
May 20, 2010 4:02 PM

I am so glad you found your calling! I believe there is a purpose for everyone, and that yours is to create wonderful stories to take the rest of us away from our troubles if even for a little while. I so can't wait to get your book!!

May 20, 2010 4:04 PM

I write, though I'm not making much of a living at it. Sometime I will, though. I'm determined.

May 20, 2010 6:02 PM

I am a grandmother. I consider that to be a job at times, but all the time, it's a privilege. The part I love most is my grandson.

May 20, 2010 6:04 PM

I'd love to be entered. My moms here to and wants to enter if thats ok? Count me in!
chirth7@yahoo.com

May 20, 2010 6:06 PM

Thanks for the giveaway! I'd like to be entered.

shundelt@yahoo.com

May 20, 2010 6:23 PM

Hi Karin ,great blog.I work at a dog daycare and I love being with all the doggies
wanda f
flanagan@mebtel.net

May 20, 2010 6:54 PM

HI KARIN!

GREAT INTERVIEW AND I'M GLAD YOU WRITE ALTHOUGH I'VE YET TO READ ANY OF YOURS............. SIGH

May 20, 2010 7:06 PM

Hey Karin,

I work at a dental supply company and while talking to people all over the world everyday is fun, the best thing about my job is the atmosphere. I am what you would call a prankster and lucky for me i have a lot of fellow pranksters (even the president who i have had a snowball fight with as we were going in to work one day)who work with me. it makes the day go by much faster and makes it fun to go to work. we are serious about our business but we love to have fun too.
Christy
practimom@yahoo.com

May 20, 2010 8:46 PM

Thank you, Tina! I hope you enjoy reading ENEMY LOVER as much as I enjoyed writing it!

May 20, 2010 8:47 PM

Edie, you have always inspired me with your perseverance. I know you will sell!!!

May 20, 2010 8:48 PM

Patsy, I'm pretty sure the grandma gig is the best gig on earth!

May 20, 2010 8:49 PM

Christine just post another comment and tell us your mom's name!

May 20, 2010 8:50 PM

Shirley, consider yourself entered! Good luck!

May 20, 2010 8:51 PM

Hotcha, thanks! Yanno, there is a cure for that: Pick up a copy of ENEMY LOVER! :)

May 20, 2010 8:53 PM

Christy, I'm not so sure what we do is as important as how much fun we have with the people we do it with. Having a great work environment is priceless. Lucky you!

May 20, 2010 11:57 PM

I take care of my Mom.and it gives me lots of time to read.thats some hot cover on your book.I would love to be in your contest.

sasluvbooks@

May 21, 2010 5:12 AM

I work as cashier at a wal mart store and I love my work. I love the customers who comes in my lane and are like friends without names. I know a few by names but not all. I enjoy people so this is a fun job for me. I am retired so working 24 hours a week is my limit. I truly envy authors who can set and put a book to gether and get a stranger's interest for hours. You ever imagine..you may get more attention by way of your books than some spouses gets all month? ha ha I am happy to say that's not the case with me. Hubby and I share 47 years next month as we still talk alot between us. ha I would love to be entered in this contest. susan L. garysue@

May 21, 2010 8:56 AM

Hi Karin! I enjoyed your story, it's good to know there are still white knights out there!

I work in construction for a general contractor, we supervise other contractors on the job, so it's like being a glorified babysitter! I love it!


sgalley65

May 21, 2010 9:34 PM

great post! please enter me :D


Littlebookaholic@

May 21, 2010 11:57 PM

Stacey your mom is lucky to have you! And yes, I have to agree, that cover is smokin' hot!

May 21, 2010 11:58 PM

Susan you sound so happy. and wow, 47 years with the same hubby? Kudos to you both! I have about 19 to go to catch up with you!

May 22, 2010 12:01 AM

Lizzie, yep, plenty of white knights out there, you just have to be patient. They eventually show themselves! I bet you feel like a glorified babysitter. but all that eye candy is worth it, yes?

May 22, 2010 12:01 AM

Van thanks for stopping by!

May 24, 2010 9:48 AM

Sorry I just came back and read the post my dream job would be to own a bookstore because I love books and talking about books.

sstrode@scrtc.com

May 25, 2010 10:56 AM

The cover for Enemy Lover is soo hot !!
flanagan@

May 26, 2010 3:35 PM

I just found this blog and I love it. I love the cover for your book, that's awesome. I write articles, I don't make alot of money but I love writing so much right now it doesn't matter.

miztik_rose@yahoo.com

May 27, 2010 8:07 AM

I would love to try this book - can't get enough of those bloodsuckers! lol bookbunny68

May 31, 2010 7:53 AM

As soon as I saw this cover, I knew I had to have it! LOL

Thanks,
Tracey D
booklover0226@

June 01, 2010 11:40 AM

That cover is so HHHHOOOOOTTTT!!!!!!

June 09, 2010 11:40 AM

Congrats to the winners :)

One L.O.S.T. Mug to: sstrode@

One Copy of Enemy Lover To: chirth7@


One Copy of Enemy Lover To: practimom@

The publisher has been notified of the wins.

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